Because it’s an uncomfortable conversation to have and he doesn’t want to have it. Also, men just aren’t as equipped to handle emotions and emotional situations as women are, so they avoid them. They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that.
The real trick is: remain PLUGGED INTO YOUR OWN LIFE – at all times. ) but only 2.5 hours away – I have had worse, secondly, he has 3 kids, which I was excited about, third, I got sick. ’ I had sent him his stuff back roughly a month before I had the seizures, so we were mutually on our way out, but would I like to hear from him? But the key here, is to remain strong and not contact him.
Keep pursuing YOUR passions, your dreams, honour what you want in your life and take pleasure in meeting those people who cross your path for however long they choose to, but also take pleasure in who YOU decide to hang out with. I don’t know if I can go so far to tell him I am ‘single’ and seeing others. We hit it off like I have never with anyone before. We ended up falling in love and spending plenty of time together. We joked around we laughed we genuinely enjoyed each other’s company.
The sooner you realize and accept this, the better off you’ll be in the long run.
Remember, if he wanted to see/speak to you, he would.
During the last 2-3 days I have kept the conversations a little bit cold since he only texts me to say good night and then says I am going to sleep (this only during this week). I kept it cold again and said I have plans for Saturday. I said just: I would love to…:) Then he dissapeared on Sunday. Im committed to moving on but think about him everyday. I’d admit now I had trust issues, I didn’t want to let him in and now I know why.
Is this because of me being a little bit cold (but I have reasons because I consider it disrespect when smn says I am going to sleep now) or what? If smn looses interest why asks to do smth on weekend. I miss him like mad but i can no longer give him the best of me when he dips out all the time. We were talking everyday, he met my kids and we finally made it official.If he was the right guy for you…well he would be with you!He wouldn’t have come up with a list of reasons to never see or speak to you again, and proceed to never see or speak to you again.over a week ago we had an amazing outdoor activity. So we spent that weekend training, and we had lunch and laughs afterwards.After that weekend, he never contacted me or we haven’t talked.Sometimes I didn’t realise men were interested in me and I ghosted them unintentionally when it turned out they were interested, so, I have done the ghosting myself. He began to slither away, but we would always get back together. So, I am making the effort to work on myself, mentally I feel great.