He asked could he move in, I was still skeptical but I said ok.
Unfortunately I had unprotected sex with him and even after that we were still cool. I figured he probably does this all the time and I just fell for the scam. Look, I think people need to know (sorry for the caps, but) THINGS AREN’T DEFINABLE.
over a week ago we had an amazing outdoor activity. So we spent that weekend training, and we had lunch and laughs afterwards.After that weekend, he never contacted me or we haven’t talked.But i stop them from becoming full blown by reminding myself that if his reason for disappearing is because of his unwillingness to support me when i’m going through a stressful time, do i really want that kind of relationship?I truly value my happiness and value as an individual.He told me it was a slight chance I could be pregnant and yeah I got mad but it was as much as my fault as his. No calls, no messages, deleted me off his social media, I’m hurt. People aren’t definable, relationships aren’t definable. We meet someone, we go head on into “being serious”. As a woman I’ve been told by magazines, reality shows, media that relationships are this or that but the real deal is, humans are too complex to be fit into criteria.
We get too caught up in how people are supposed to act and our expectations continually suffer because of it. What is a certainty is that you can always keep being plugged into your own life, at all times. Genuine respect, friendship, emotional connection is important when you first meet someone you might like.
OK, so now that we know why, let’s talk about what to do to help you move on to greener pastures. Girls will come up with all kinds of deluded reasons why they absolutely must initiate contact.
He stopped initiating contact with you because he is no longer interested in you.
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Sometimes I didn’t realise men were interested in me and I ghosted them unintentionally when it turned out they were interested, so, I have done the ghosting myself. He began to slither away, but we would always get back together. So, I am making the effort to work on myself, mentally I feel great.